The Seasons Have Changed

27 September 2017

...and so have we. 

It is officially my favourite season--autumn! Although the beginnings of autumn in San Francisco aren't exactly enjoyable (today it got up to 115º!), I look forward to the cooler nights to come, when I can see my breath and bundle up in oversized scarves and sweaters.

As we approach October, I can't help but reflect on how far I've come since October last. Around this time of year in 2016 was definitely when my mental health hit rock bottom. Of course, I don't remember those days (or, nights, rather) in especially fond light, but it is comforting to see where I am now and how much my overall happiness has improved since then. This is also the same time I was diagnosed with BPD, which marks the starting point to my road to recovery and newfound happiness. Although I am not in perfect shape, I am the most stable I've been in years.

Despite all of that, I still have bad days. If you suffer from mental illness and have been doing well for a while and fall back every now and then, you know how it feels. I find it's really important to forgive yourself and remember that just because you have a few bad days where it feels like everything is spiralling back to the way it used to be, doesn't mean that your work thus far was in vain. Keeping track of these patterns and what triggers them, however, is equally important. Personally, my anxiety has been worse than usual, which I've targeted to be a result of financial and organisation issues. The best thing to do in this case to relieve my anxiety is tackle those specific problems at hand currently. It doesn't mean I will be curing my anxiety, as it will always be a part of me, but making small changes to soften the blow of the symptoms is what can make living with mental illness feel slightly more possible. 

I think the new season is great motivation to kick yourself into shape and develop new healthy habits in areas of your life you'd like to improve! For example, here are some things I'll work on for the autumn season:
  • Decluttering my home
  • Healthier eating habits
  • Financial management & budgeting
  • Hydration
  • Getting on a regular sleeping schedule
Having too long of a list can seem overwhelming, so just focusing on one point each week is a great way to relieve that stress and still work towards your goal! If you feel mentally healthy and don't have concerns like these, try setting a life goal and coming up with a list of actions or improvements you can make to reach that goal! Feeling productive and busy is what helps me to not dwell on the stress and anxieties in my life.

One of my biggest struggles is feeling as though I have to spend every spare minute freely available on being productive, which only causes me more anxiety and stress! Keep in mind that it's okay to take a day off where you just relax all day, especially if you had a really busy week. Sometimes overworking and not taking a breather can be worse for you in the end, so you deserve to rest every now and then! I like to treat myself with a nap, a bubble bath, or a face mask.

What are some things on your list of what to focus on/change this coming season? What do you do to unwind on your days off? Let me know in the comments! Always looking for more inspiration & motivation!

x Sarah

  • blouse: vintage
  • trousers: vintage
  • hat: vintage                        
  • coat: h&m (old)                      
  • shoes: primark (old)
  • handbag: vintage
  • belt: vintage
  • lips: nars
  • eyeliner: nyx 
  • brows: anastasia beverly hills
  • Heat Wave Essentials

    01 September 2017

    The San Francisco summer has officially arrived! For those of you who don't live in the Bay Area, the months of September and October are the absolute hottest up here, and today, being the first day of September, was no exception, with temperatures reaching up to 102º F (unheard of!). I find myself envious of people who are beginning to see fall colours and wear more layers, especially on a day as hot as today. I can't help but feel angry at myself for not taking advantage of the times I was cold, that's just how miserable it feels today!

    Thankfully, growing up on a tropical island with year-round heat and humidity provided me with a bit of expertise in surviving the scorching heat, and for those of you still experiencing it, I thought I'd share my heat wave essentials that I carried with me today. Although these products aren't the cure to the inevitable sweaty, stickiness, they do contribute somewhat of a solution to the symptoms of a sweltering day in the city, apart from lots (and I mean lots) of ice cream. Other than consuming said ice cream alongside gallons of water to stay hydrated and cool, these six things really helped get me through the day the most comfortably I could. 

    1. Mario Badescu Facial Spray with Aloe • Spritz for a cooling and calming burst to the skin! I spray it before I apply my makeup and then throughout the day to refreshen my skin.
    2. Too Faced Hangover Replenishing Face Primer • A light, moisturising primer that feels light and cool to the touch! Perfect for keeping my makeup from melting away.
    3. Neutrogena Ultra Sheer Body Mist Sunscreen (SPF 100+) • As a fair skinned redhead, it's important to protect my delicate skin! This sunblock is easy to self-apply and works like a charm.
    4. Wet Ones Antibacterial Hand Wipes • There's nothing worse to me than the feeling of sticky, dirty hands. Carrying these around was a must with today's mugginess.
    5. Supergoop! Everyday Sunscreen • An excellent oil-free sunscreen that wears expertly under my foundation and protects my face from harmful UV rays.
    6. Kate Spade New York Kandi Cat Eye Sunglasses • Light eyes are the most sensitive to light! With the amount of sunlight and reflections (and easily triggered migraines) I would be nothing without my sunnies!

    For those of you enduring the heat alongside me, we can get through this together! It's days like today that make me wonder why anyone enjoys being out in the sun. San Francisco homes are scarcely equipped with AC, so even being indoors has been exceptionally uncomfortable. I am looking forward to next week when I'll be heading to a cooler climate, but more on that later!

    Do you have any further advice for surviving hot weather? I know it won't last forever, but I am at my wit's end! It's hard to believe I survived living in Hawaii for eleven years now that I've grown so accustomed to the crisp San Francisco air.

    x Sarah

  • playsuit: anthropologie
  • shoes: steve madden
  • brows: anastasia beverley hills (in auburn)                         
  • foundation: kat von d (in light 42 neutral)
  • blush: tarte (in paaarty)

  • handbag: anthropologie
  • sunnies: kate spade
  • lips: bobbi brown (in orange)
  • eyeliner: nyx 

  • Everyday Makeup Routine

    29 August 2017

    Disclaimer: I do not feel as though I "need" to wear makeup, but I have fun doing it! I do not feel as though anyone "should" wear makeup, but for those of you interested in my daily routine, I've provided this little tutorial. Remember you are beautiful just the way you are--makeup is meant to be for fun and for yourself only, not for anyone else. Please be kind to one another! 
    Hello, there, everyone! I bring to you today my first ever makeup post! I've been wanting to incorporate beauty into my blogging for quite some time now, (regardless of my lack of skill in the application process) so the best way to start, I thought, was with my go-to every day look! This is typically what I wear nearly every day to work, to meet up with friends for coffee, or running errands on my own. I will switch one or two things up each day, but this is the most common makeup look I wear! If you've been interested in how I do my makeup or what products I use, here we go!
    Before I apply any makeup, I always apply moisturiser, because I have incredibly dry skin, especially around my nose and eyes. I either apply it alone or mix it with my foundation, if I want less coverage and a more dewy finish. For this look in particular, I applied my moisturiser by itself and let it sink into my skin for a few minutes, then applied foundation with a damp Real Techniques sponge. On rare occasions, I will put a primer on after moisturising and before foundation if I want a bit of longer wear. My primer of choice is Too Faced's Hangover because it's moisturising and feels cool on the face! After my foundation, I apply a small amount of eyeshadow primer to keep my eye makeup in place.

    Next comes my favourite part--blush! I love to really overload the blush and give myself a bright, youthful look. I'll typically start on the apples of my cheeks, swooping up towards my cheekbones, and then add a little bit on my nose and chin for a natural flush. I then add a matte bronzer for a bit of contouring. If I'm feeling a bit flat, I typically add a bit of highlight to my nose and cheekbones. For my everyday look, however, I wanted to keep things mattified. (My favourite highlighter is theBalm's Mary-Lou Manizer)

    Next up is my favourite feature to bring attention to--my eyes. I always start by filling in my rather light and particularly sparse brows with my handy-dandy Anastasia Dip Brow Pomade in Auburn. This pot I have has lasted me nearly two years and it's nowhere near used up--which is especially impressive considering it is one product I use every day if nothing else. My brows are naturally arched, so I define that with a heavier hand and an angled brush on the mid-to-outer brow, and then make light vertical strokes on the inner brow and then use the spooly bit end of the brush to blur them out for a more natural look.

    And now for my classic cat eye! You will rarely ever see me leave the house without flicked eyeliner, and I've been perfecting it since I was in high school (almost ten years now, ahh!). I'm still no master and have bad days where I just can't get it right (the struggle of hooded eyes). To start off the eyes, I cover my lids in a light nude matte eyeshadow that closely matches my skin. If I'm feeling like I want more dimension, I'll add a soft matte taupe in the crease. My go-to mattes are in the Kat Von D Shade & Light Eyeshadow Palette.

    I find the beloved cat eye easiest to create with a brush tipped liquid eyeliner. I've used Kat Von D's Tattoo Liner for years, but my current favourite dupe (that I actually like a lot better) is NYX Epic Ink Liner (a close second being Soap and Glory's Supercat). The pointed tip and flexible bristles provide an effortless clean line. I'll typically make the triangle shape on the outside of my eyes (relatively flat for my hooded eyes) and then connect it through my inner corner and fill in.

    Once I'm happy with my eyeliner, I finish off the eyes with any volumising mascara. I haven't found my perfect go-to mascara yet, but some of my favourites are Too Faced Better That Sex Mascara and Tarte Lights, Camera, Splashes Mascara. In this look, I am using an old favourite that's wildly affordable--Maybelline Great Lash Lots of Lashes. The tear shaped applicator brush really packs on the product on my outer lashes, giving a lovely "fanned-out" effect, which is how I prefer my lashes. Maybelline, however, is not a cruelty-free company, so I will most likely not repurchase, but if being cruelty-free is not something important to you as a consumer and you like lots of volume on a short budget, I would highly recommend this one!

    The lips are what truly completes my makeup look. I feel so exposed and unkempt unless my lips are done, and a red lip always makes me feel so elegant, and pairing it with a cat eye is such a timelessly decadent look. I typically try and exfoliate my lips every so often to ensure softness (I use French Girl Organics Rose Lip Polish) and then a lip balm for moisture (I use Burt's Bees Vanilla Bean). This will allow the colour to glide on more smoothly and give me the look I desire. This Nars Velvet Matte Lip Pencil in Cruella is great because it allows me to line and fill my lips all in one, and it's my perfect red shade.

    To finish off my face, I add a few final touches here and there--including filling in my freckles that are too light to be seen under my foundation, as well as using a dark brown liquid eyeliner to accentuate my moles (or "beauty marks" as some may call them), my favourite being the one on my cheek. For my freckles, I use a very, very light taupe or brown and gently press into my skin, focusing mostly on my nose and twist the pencil. If the marks are too dark, I will dab my beauty blender over them to soften.

    And we're finished! I know this isn't the typical "every day look", but it is definitely my go-to. I love looking like a glamorous old Hollywood star and live like one each and every day! It is simple, yet elegant, classic, yet timeless, and one of the most versatile looks there is. A red lip and cat eye are my favourite accessories, and very few outfits I have are complete without them!

    I hope you enjoyed my first ever makeup tutorial! I know it was a bit lengthy, but I had fun going through my process step by step. It's been many years of practice and figuring out what works best with my skin type, eye shape, etc., and I am happy to finally have found a look that I feel most comfortable with!

    1. Kat Von D Lock-it Foundation in Light 42 Neutral
    2. Kat Von D Shade & Light Eye Palette
    3. Soap & Glory Speed Plump All-Day Super Moisture Marvel
    4. e.l.f Cosmetics Blush with Brush in Blushing
    5. Benefit Hoola Bronzer
    6. Maybelline Great Lash Lots of Lashes
    7. Chella Eyebrow Defining Gel
    8. NARS Velvet Matte Lip Pencil in Cruella
    9. Anastasia Beverly Hills Dip-Brow Pomade in Auburn
    10. Lorac Behind the Scenes Eye Primer
    11. Wet n' Wild Color Icon Kohl Liner in Taupe of the Mornin'
    What are some of your favourite beauty products at the moment? Do you have any cruelty-free alternatives to the products I used above? Let me know in the comments! I am always interested in learning about new products and updating my makeup kit!

    x Sarah

    What Sarah Wants - Birthday Wishlist!

    03 August 2017

    1. Cult Gaia Gaia's Ark (Large) in Natural - $138.00
    2. Beats by Dr. Dre Solo3 Bluetooth Wireless Headphones in Rose Gold - $299.99
    3. Anastasia Beverly Hills Subculture Eyeshadow Palette - $42.00
    4. Glossier Phase 2 Set (in Zip, Light, & Clear) - $40.00
    5. Langley Street Leominster 6 Drawer Dresser with Mirror in Natural - $749.99
    6. Death Cab for Cutie We Have the Facts and We're Voting Yes Vinyl - ~$25.00
    7. Paramore After Laughter Vinyl - $19.99
    8. Steve Madden Dalis Mules in Sand - $62.99
    9. Crosley Harper Wood Wireless Speakers - $79.00
    It's officially Leo Season, and this coming Sunday is my 23rd birthday! I'm not huge on receiving gifts lately, as I'm trying to cut back on the whole excessive-material-possessions-having thing. But I decided to make a theoretical idealistic birthday wish list, if I were to be undeservedly spoilt this coming weekend. Of course, I know most of these are absolute luxury items and way too much to expect for a gift, so I guess it's more of a "want" list than a "wish" list, because I'd never actually presume someone would blow this much cash on little ole me. 

    HOWEVER, in a perfect world where money is no object and having a bunch of things in my humble San Francisco apartment didn't fill me with intense anxiety, these are some things I'd really love! What are some things you'd have on your idealistic wish list? Let me know in the comments so I can check them out and drool over them too. x

    A Friendly Guide to Borderline Personality Disorder

    19 July 2017

    *content warning: suicidal ideation, self harm, abuse/trauma mention -- if any of these trigger you, please be mindful that this post has mentions and references, in not-too specific detail, to these triggers. Please read with discretion and take care of yourself  

    Disclaimer: I am in no way a medical professional nor an expert on Borderline Personality Disorder or any other mental illness. This post is based solely on my experience as someone with BPD and what I've learnt through day-to-day life, therapy, and dialectical behavioural therapy educational group sessions. Everyone experiences mental health differently, and so what works for me may not necessarily work for you, even if you have the same diagnosis! Also never diagnose yourself--please seek help from a psychiatrically trained doctor or social worker with the credentials to diagnose you!

    For as long as I can remember, I have struggled with mental illness. Having attended therapy since the age of 10, I've heard hardly every diagnosis possible: depression; generalised anxiety; obsessive compulsive disorder; phobia; even ADHD (thanks to a horribly lazy psychiatrist who determined this after asking me just one question). Although depression, anxiety, and OCD hit very close to home, I still didn't feel as though how I felt and dealt with my emotions was ever really "normal". It can't be typical to jump straight to suicidal ideation in situations of moderate to high stress, even with depression. After a visit to the ER in the months following trauma, and a visit back to my therapist who I hadn't seen for nearly a year, it was finally concluded that my symptoms matched up perfectly with BPD, or borderline personality disorder.

    So what is BPD? The best way I describe it is feeling things 100% more intensely than the average person, including both negative and positive emotions, and having difficult regulating these emotions. Contrary to popular belief, BPD is not Bipolar Disorder, despite seeming somewhat similar. Although people with borderline experience extreme lows and issues with anger, there is no mania involved in BPD, as there is with bipolar disorder.

    I had heard of BPD very briefly, but never looked into the definition and symptoms thoroughly until my therapist brought it up. I know if I had, I would have figured out my diagnosis a long, long time ago. I fit nearly every single symptom listed and suddenly my life made sense. I read information and symptoms on this website, but I can provide a gist of it in my own words below.

    You might have BPD if you...

    • feel incredibly intense highs and incredibly intense lows
    • have distorted self-image or body dysmorphia
    • have difficulty controlling anger/lash out
    • self-harm or frequent suicidal thoughts
    • have severe abandonment issues
    • experience dissociation
    • feel chronically empty
    • have difficulty dealing with moderate to high amounts of stress
    • have stressful, paranoid thoughts
    • act on impulsive and harmful behaviours (unsafe sex, drugs/alcohol, retail therapy)
    • have a pattern of unstable and/or abusive relationships, romantically or otherwise

    There are several things that can essentially trigger BPD, though it is not certain what the exact cause may be. Most people with BPD are survivors of abuse (mental, emotional, physical, or sexual), either from childhood or other developmental and transitional periods of life. It took a lot of therapy, digging, and self-reflection to find my own personal triggers and where my BPD truly got the most out of hand. Once I got to the bottom of that it was easier to begin to treat my illness. BPD has no known cure, but there are thankfully several ways to manage living with borderline.

    Treatment options for BPD:
    • one-on-one therapy -- when I first was diagnosed and was at my lowest point, I attended one-on -one therapy weekly, which later went to bi-weekly, then monthly.
    • medication -- daily antidepressants and/or anti-anxiety medication to help treat the symptoms of BPD. The medication that I take that works for me is 10mg Lexapro, daily. Be sure to take note of the symptoms of each option and keep them in mind when deciding which medication will be best for you. Keep in mind that it will take trial and error to find the right medication--it definitely took years for me. Also each medication can take 3-6 months to start working, so patience is key.
    • group therapy -- I'm currently in my second round of group therapy and I've found it to be so valuable in merely the fact that you're a part of a small community of people going through exactly what you're going through, especially if you feel particularly alone. The group therapy designed for people with borderline is DBT, or dialectical behavioural therapy. I found group therapy through my therapist/medical provider, but there are plenty of internet sources to find your own!
    • mindfulness -- this is something I went into extensively in group therapy, so I highly recommend finding a DBT group to better understand it, but mindfulness in itself is something you can do each and every day in all that you do to centre yourself
    • radical acceptance -- this is the technique I found most useful in my time healing. This is essentially accepting how you're feeling or what you're thinking 100% without judging it. I notice in my own life that I very often thought or felt a certain way and told myself I shouldn't be feeling or thinking that way, but when I just said to myself "this is how I'm feeling" and had no opinion of it, I felt very at peace and more aware of my emotions.
    • The Wise Mind Chart -- one of the first components of handling my BPD that was taught to me was awareness of The Wise Mind. People with borderline tend to react in their Emotional Mind, so it is important to balance that with the Rational Mind and bring yourself to your Wise Mind (example of Venn diagram below):
    Dealing with someone with borderline (especially living with them) can be difficult, as it can be anxiety-inducing to not know when unexpected intense emotional reactions could be headed your way. This is why many people with BPD have issues having meaningful and non-destructive relationships with partners, friends and roommates. If someone you love, know, or just have to deal with has BPD, below is some ways you can help and adjust.

    Ways to support someone with BPD:
    • understand that strong, emotional reactions, although often hurtful, are irrational and is just a symptom of their illness, not who they are as a person
    • try to keep a level head when having a conversation or argument
    • politely remind them to use their Wise Mind, in a non-condescending manner
    • educate yourself on the symptoms and causes of BPD
    • be compassionate and understanding
    • take their feelings seriously, even if they're not rational
    • understand that BPD is an illness, not a personality trait
    • advise against harmful or symptomatic behaviours 
    • acknowledge that even if you would not react to something or feel so strongly about 
    If you'd like more posts about BPD, please leave a comment below with more you'd like to know, or any questions you have! I am always happy to share my experiences if it will help those of you also suffering. I hope you found my insight helpful, whether you suffer yourself, or know someone who does. Just remember that having Borderline Personality Disorder does not define you! You are not your illness, and you can overcome anything, despite feeling like it's absolutely impossible.  x

  • top: vintage
  • overalls: asos
  • brows: anastasia beverley hills (in auburn)                         
  • foundation: kat von d (in light 42 neutral)
  • blush: e.l.f. (in blushing)

  • handbag: modcloth
  • sunnies: kate spade
  • lips: the balm (in trustworthy)
  • eyeliner: nyx 
  • boots: primark
  • Angelic

    29 June 2017

    It is needless to say that I got sunburnt on this day. Getting sunburnt in San Francisco is not a frequent occurrence, but with this heat wave I mentioned in my last post, and being an incredibly fair-skinned easy target for those dastardly rays, it is still entirely possible. There is one up side to being in the sun--it makes for some lovely lighting for photos! It gave a somewhat angelic, halo-like affect. (Don't be fooled, I'm still the devil)

    I love tying my hair back on hot, sweaty days such as these, typically in a high pony and a ribbon like you see here, but I find that throughout the day the pulling gives me a horrific headache and I can't wait to take my hair down. Does this happen to any others of you who have extremely thick hair like I do? Or even better... does anyone have a solution other than grinning and bearing it and popping some headache medication? I love how my hair looks in a ponytail, but I just can't stand the soreness. Beauty is pain, I suppose.

    This Tylho off-the-shoulder gingham dress I got at Anthropologie has been my absolute favourite dress of the summer! It's light, comfortable, and gives me just the right amount of Dorothy from The Wizard of Oz vibes (seriously, I find it very difficult not to pair with a basket handbag and red shoes!). I have been seriously watching my spending at work lately, but as soon as this dress arrived I knew I had to have it... I am a sucker for any blue retro-inspired dress with an A-line skirt (thank you, again, Zooey Deschanel in (500) Days of Summer...I can't help it, it's my biggest style inspiration film!). I find this dress in particular to be so incredibly versatile, I've worn it on a date, to work, and out and about during the day! It's definitely a piece that won't be leaving my closet any time soon...

    Do you have a favourite summer piece yet, or is it too early to say? If so, what is it? Let me know in the comments, I'd love to find out and continue to get inspired! I hope you all are continuing to stay cool during what seems like one of the hottest summer in years!

  • dress: anthropologie
  • shoes: thrifted
  • brows: anastasia beverley hills (in auburn)                         
  • foundation: kat von d (in light 42 neutral)
  • blush: covergirl (in 510 iced plum)

  • handbag: vintage
  • necklace: vintage hand-me-down
  • lips: burt's bees (in red dahlia)
  • eyeliner: soap & glory
  • earrings: forever 21
  • Summer In The City

    19 June 2017

    Summer has officially arrived! At least it's been feeling that way lately, with the unusually premature heat wave we've had in San Francisco! (For reference, for those of you who aren't familiar with the weather patterns of my beautiful city--typically our hottest month of the year is October and.....that's pretty much it.) Although it's only been around 83º F (much lower than the cities and towns east of the bay), the humidity brought in by the sea has definitely left it feeling positively scorching outside. 

    Thankfully, there is an upside--this allows for lightweight vintage dresses, iced coffee, and lots of time spent freckling outdoors. That is precisely what I've been doing with my dearest friend Haylie (who ever so graciously agreed to start photographing me for my blog posts!). This past week, she and I visited As Quoted in Laurel Heights for our weekly coffee date--a cute, minimalist eatery that, looking back, I may have spent a little too much money at... (avocado toast, two cookies, a banana muffin, and a hot chocolate... it all looked too good, how was I to decide??) Fortunately, I had zero regrets (besides the banana muffin, but to be fair, I didn't realise it was a banana muffin when I bought it--not my favourite choice), in fact, writing about it now is making my mouth water, so perhaps I should move on.

    As for the outfit (while retrospectively, I sort of regret the long sleeves), I wore one of my all-time favourite thrifted numbers from Thrift Town in the Mission district (R.I.P.), a vintage Saks Fifth Avenue shirtdress I took from a mannequin! It's such a timeless piece that never ceases to lead people to compliment me, and I am a sucker for red and navy. This silhouette is ideal for my rather-curvy-slightly-cinched-in-the-waist body type (a reason I mostly wear vintage to begin with). Pair that with a statement necklace, and your favourite vintage shoes and handbag and you're good to go! This is a very classic look of mine, but I always enjoy finding ways to change it up.

    It's all about the details with this look, and I am sporting some of my all-time favourite vintage finds with this ensemble. This wicker atlas purse had been on the top of my vintage wishlist since I saw the ones Zooey Deschanel donned in (500) Days of Summer, ultimately one of my favourite films of all time and origin of my personal style inspiration. At last, two years ago almost to the day, a friend found it for me at Goodwill while we were perusing and I almost cried of joy! It is absolutely perfect in every way and definitely my go-to handbag for any day-time look. I adore this style of shoe (I have no idea what they're called--if you do, please let me know!) and found these fragile little beauties in a small vintage boutique in Honolulu (the name escapes me, it has been five years now!). The lining is deteriorating on the inside, leaving my feet constantly covered in brownish dust, but they are just so darling and versatile I can't get myself to part with them! I'm sure many of you feel the same way about a slowly perishing vintage item or two.

    Despite my lack of familiarity (regardless of living in Hawaii humidity for half of my life), the sunny weather is still a nice treat after a dreadfully cold and rainy winter. I suppose in small doses, it isn't so terrible... but I still prefer fog any day!

    What are some of your favourite things to do on a hot summer's day? Let me know in the comments, because this overcast-loving city dweller is at a loss, and any suggestions would be greatly appreciated! Meanwhile, I will continue my regimen of consuming bucketloads of Gold Peak green iced tea and profusely fanning myself with whatever magazine I can find laying around. That being said, a little sunshine is never a bad thing--enjoy it while it lasts!

  • dress: vintage
  • shoes: vintage
  • brows: anastasia beverley hills (in auburn)                         
  • foundation: kat von d (in light 42 neutral)
  • blush: covergirl (in 510 iced plum)

  • handbag: vintage
  • necklace: anthropologie (old)
  • lips: stila (in beso)
  • eyeliner: soap & glory
  • rings: vintage hand-me-down's
  • Hello, Again

    21 May 2017

    Well, hello there! You may notice a few changes around here--and by a few I mean everything. The Petite Pixie is now What Sarah Said! For a while, I feel as though I've outgrown my "petite pixie" persona, and that I had to put on this somewhat faerie-like, positive façade, when in reality, I'm just a 22 year old college grad, who experiences a plethora of emotions and wears more than just pastel sparkles. Don't get me wrong, The Petite Pixie will always be a part of me, but just one side of me. I'm more interested in exposing every layer and curve of my being (in moderation).  Before you click unfollow, there are some aspects of this blog that won't go away!

    Content That Won't Change:
    • outfit posts--I, of course, plan on continuing to share what I wear as the main portion of this blog. Fashion and personal style are still a huge part of my life and will remain the focus of What Sarah Said
    • vintage style--Vintage has always (and I really do mean always) been such a huge part of my life and it always will be. Lately, I've been more focused on collecting quality vintage, and look forward to sharing these pieces with you, as well as pointers on where and how to shop.
    • modelling work--As some of you may know, I'm an actor and a model, and oftentimes I have shared some of my shoots here in blog posts. As I work more professionally, I hope to continue doing this to not only add more exposure for my work, but also that of the photographers, makeup artists, stylists, and other artists involved.
    New Content to Expect:

    • mental health--Probably the biggest reason I've been absent for over a year has to do with my own struggles and steps with mental health. I plan on sharing my experiences and providing as much advice as I can from these experiences for anyone who deals with similar issues.
    • home--I've grown more of an interest in interior design and home shopping (almost more than clothing) as of late, and have been in the process of completely redoing my bedroom and home and would love to show you the process (as well as room tours upon moving, hopefully in the near future)
    • misc. lifestyle--I'd love to start writing about topics that are important to me, such as health, relationships, school, and anything else I know a wee bit about that could possibly help anyone reading! If you have any other suggestions, please let me know!
    • beauty--I've always loved makeup, skincare, and other various forms of beauty, so I'm excited to start sharing some of my favourite products, routines, and looks with you here!
    • books--Reading is one of my most favourite activities and has been since I was really young. I'd like to somehow incorporate the books I read into blog posts, whether through book reviews, book clubs, recommendations, etc.
    • art--I really want to start promoting and supporting more indie artists on this blog, whether by paying for their work to add to my blog's layout, or writing a spotlight post for some of my favourite artists.
    • lingerie--I have always loved lingerie (particularly vintage inspired lingerie), and so my hopes for this blog will include sharing some pieces in an effort to promote body positivity as well as brands I trust and believe in that make me feel beautiful, so that you can feel beautiful too.
    There are also other ideas I have for this blog storming in my brain, but for now, I'll leave you with this little introduction. I have so many new blog posts waiting to be written and I look forward to sharing what's been on my mind with those of you who will be willing to listen. I am constantly looking for and appreciative of feedback, so if you have any ideas, requests, concerns, or questions, never hesitate to leave a comment here, or send me an email. All of my social media accounts are linked at the sidebar if you need any other means of communication.

    Thank you so much for coming back, and I look forward to learning and growing with each and every one of you.

    x Sarah

    photos by: Haylie (thank you!!!)
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